Summary

Abhishek Kumar Yadav, a young man aspiring to join the Indian Army, faced repeated disqualification due to a medical condition called Hypospadias. Despite clearing other selection criteria, he was declared unfit during medical examinations in 2013 and again in 2016. Initially unaware of the severity of his condition, he underwent surgery from an external doctor, but the stitches opened within a few days, leading to further complications.

Determined to pursue a government job, he later started preparing for the SSC GD exam. Although he cleared all rounds, his medical test in 2019-2020 again flagged “Coronal Hypospadias,” leaving him disheartened. While researching his condition on YouTube, he came across a video by Dr. Anand Kumar Nagwani, which prompted him to seek medical consultation. After a discussion with the doctor, he underwent successful surgery at Calcutta Cosmo Aid.

Post-surgery, Abhishek expressed immense relief, stating that he now felt completely normal and faced no discomfort in daily activities. He emphasized that he experienced no significant pain during recovery and was able to walk and function normally soon after the procedure. Grateful for the care and treatment he received, he encouraged others suffering from hypospadias to seek medical attention without hesitation. He credited Dr. Nagwani for changing his life, even referring to him as a god-like figure for helping him overcome his long-standing struggle.

Conversation

Doctor: Namaskar, I am Dr. Anand Kumar Nagwani (Plastic and Cosmetic Surgeon). Today, the person sitting with me is Abhishek Kumar Yadav, and he was suffering from hypospadias. Due to this problem, he was disqualified almost two to three times from Army selection and BSF selection. Every time, he was declared unfit. Troubled by this issue, he came to me. Now, you listen to his problem from him.

Patient: My name is Abhishek Kumar Yadav. In 2013, when I went to attend an Army rally in Gorakhpur for the first time, everything was clear in my selection process. After that, my medical examination took place, and during that, I came to know that I had hypospadias. We consulted an external doctor, and he said that surgery would be required. He performed my operation, but 2-3 days after the surgery, the stitches opened.

Doctor: This was in 2013?

Patient: Yes, it was in 2013. After the stitches opened, I thought that everything was fine now, as it was an internal issue, and I believed that it must have healed on its own, thinking that everyone must have the same condition. Later, when I went for my remedical examination, I was declared unfit.

Doctor: Was this in 2013 itself?

Patient: Yes, I was declared unfit in 2013 itself. Then, I tried again in 2016.

Doctor: From 2013 to 2016, what preparations were you doing?

Patient: Yes, sir, I was preparing. But once, my running test was not cleared, sir.

Doctor: During this period, did you ever think about what your exact problem was?

Patient: No, sir, because the surgery had already been done.

Doctor: Oh, I see, okay.

Patient: My medical examination happened just a month after the surgery, and they told me that maybe my wound hadn’t healed yet, so I was declared unfit. I thought that perhaps the wound hadn’t dried properly, which is why I was disqualified.

Doctor: So, somewhere in your mind, there was confusion?

Patient: Yes, and then in 2016, the same thing happened again. I was again declared unfit. After that, I decided not to pursue the Army anymore and started preparing for Railway and other government exams. Then, the SSC GD exam came up, so I started preparing for that. I cleared all stages of SSC GD, but during the medical examination, they again noted “Coronal Hypospadias” in my report. At that point, I got very worried, wondering what had happened to me.

Doctor: This was in 2016?

Patient: No, sir, this was more recent.

Doctor: In 2020?

Patient: In 2019.

Doctor: You gave the exam in 2019, and the medical happened in 2020?

Patient: Yes, after that, when my medical examination happened, they again marked it, and I was completely devastated. I went back home feeling lost. I started watching videos on YouTube about hypospadias surgeons. That’s when I came across a video of Dr. Anand Kumar Nagwani, where he was talking about a child with the same hypospadias problem.

Doctor: That’s because, usually, these problems are identified in childhood. When a baby is born, pediatricians or gynecologists usually inform the parents about hypospadias. Most cases come to us during infancy itself. But we have seen that some people reach adulthood without getting it treated, and then they approach us.

Patient: Sir, I had no idea about my condition. I only found out in 2013 when I went for the Army rally and underwent a medical examination. After that, I got surgery done, and I thought that maybe my wound had not healed properly, which is why I was declared unfit. But when my medical examination happened again in 2019-20, I noticed something different.

When we were taken for the medical test, about 50-60 boys were sent together to the washroom. When I went to urinate, I observed that the way others were urinating was different from mine. That’s when I realized that I was different from them. This worried me a lot. Then, I saw Dr. Nagwani’s video, and after watching it, I immediately called his clinic.

Doctor: So, you called our reception?

Patient: Yes, I first came alone to meet you, sir. But you advised me not to come alone and to bring my parents along. Then, I came with my parents, and after discussing everything with you, I was admitted to the hospital within two days. My surgery was done successfully. Now, when I go to the washroom, I feel normal, just like everyone else.

Doctor: So, you feel completely normal now? And after the surgery, were you able to walk properly?

Patient: Yes, sir, there was no problem at all.

Doctor: Another big concern that people have is about the pain—how much pain did you experience?

Patient: (Smiles)

Doctor: First, tell me, how scared were you before the operation?

Patient: Sir, I was very scared. I kept thinking about how it would be, and whether my stitches might open up again. Because, in such surgeries, tension in the area is inevitable. Since I had already undergone one failed surgery, I was worried that it might not be successful again. I thought I would be in pain for 5-6 days after the surgery, but surprisingly, I felt no pain at all. There was no problem.

Doctor: After the operation, were you able to sit and walk properly? People often ask this because their biggest fear is how much pain they will have.

Patient: There was absolutely no pain. I have undergone this surgery, and I can confidently say that there is nothing to be afraid of. Some people may have doubts, but trust me, within two hours, you will be completely normal.

Here at the hospital, we are taken care of like family members. I stayed here for 12 days, and it felt like home to me. Today, I have traveled 45 km from home to give this interview, just to let people know that if anyone has this problem, they should come here without any hesitation. If you have a hypospadias problem, you can come here with your eyes closed. Sir will just tell you to trust in God, and everything will be fine. But for me, sir himself is like God.

Doctor: No, no, it’s not like that. God is God. My only wish is that you achieve great success in life.

Patient: But for me, sir, you are God.

Conclusion

Abhishek’s journey highlights the importance of timely diagnosis and proper treatment for hypospadias. Many individuals remain unaware of their condition until adulthood, which can impact both their physical and emotional well-being. Seeking expert medical advice is crucial for effective treatment and a better quality of life.

For adults dealing with hypospadias, here are some essential tips:

1. Consult a Specialist – A qualified plastic surgeon with experience in Hypospadias repair can provide the best treatment options.
2. Do Not Ignore Symptoms – If you experience difficulty in urination or notice anatomical differences, seek medical attention.
3. Mental Preparedness – Address any anxiety by discussing concerns with your doctor and understanding the recovery process.
4. Post-Surgery Care – Follow all post-operative instructions to ensure smooth healing and avoid complications.

Proper medical intervention can restore normal function and improve overall confidence.